So my bf basically cheated on me and I feel that I need to move on from what he did instead of dwelling and thinking about it all the time and it's like I feel that I have forgiven him but I'm not sure bc when I think about it i still get mad or sad but I dont hate him for it and I still sometimes get mad at him for it but not like super mad and like we can talk about it now without it being a super big issue. So like I guess I just wanna know if I've forgiven him or no like even though I still feel those emotions I feel like I have forgiven him but like idk ig I'm just confused on how you know if you've actually forgiven someone.
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I feel like you can forgive but still have a slight grudge against someone due to a certain situation and that’s okay. You’re still learning how to deal with your emotions towards the situation. Happy you guys were able to fix things.
You have but it takes time to actually heal you've forggiven but not healed. That's going to take time because your hurt and a scar always takes time to heal
You have to have patience with yourself don't pick at the scab let it heal ya know what I'm trying to say?
Always remember your humen we have emotions it's normal to feel sad or even mad. Your hurt love and again it's going to take time.
I'm so proud of you for forgiving him alot of people stay with that forever that's a 1st step in your healing journey you have forgiven. I know how you feel and if I got and am getting through all the Heartbreakers I've had you can also!
It's okay everything is going to be okay think positive I believe in you and you got this head up and crown up hun 💛