Hey sis, I'm from Hawaii ! I'm currently so confused with everything right now. I grew up in a abusive home so it's really hard for me to open up about things. Both me and my uncle (who's like a dad to me) have been spending almost everyday together since March. We're building a very good bond and bc my birth father left many scars on me both physically and mentally my mind is trying to sabotage this new bond I built before he "could" hurt or leave me ykwim . I just felt like spilling this out bc the inside of me doesn't want to get hurt, I'm tired of it. But at the same time ion wanna mess up this really good bond and live the rest of my life wondering what if I had let this bond grow more ?
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Hey love, I understand why you feel the way you do. You deserved much better from your parents. Keep building your bond with your uncle and people around you that you can trust and if you ever wanna talk more let me know !! Proud of you for speaking up also
Your welcome hun anytime , alright for sure thanks love. Have a good night God bless 💗
Hey babes , I understand you with the whole dad situation accept mine wasn't really in my life. It's hard to let go of the neagtive thoughts because they always get to you but I know that your positive energy well kill those negative thoughts. It's okay about not being open take your time but also don't let things inside let it out trust me on that. This bound with your uncle you won't ruind it , it's scary I know and your parnoid to get hurt but take time and go with the flow think positive and keep vibing. Honestly alot of us don't have a father or even a father figure and we would love that so be grateful hun! It's so normal to be confused we are all still young and have so much ahead of us so don't pin yourself down love. Remember today is today and tomorrow is tomorrow live in today and I know that's hard but you can do it! Soon those scars well heal baby steps those scars made you the beautiful postive person you are today . Head up and crown up love, you got this and we're all here for you whenever you want to talk ! God bless💗PS: Can you have the best of fun in Hawaii for me please it's so beautiful over there 🥺🌺